The book follows the physical and emotional journeys of four characters Sniff, Scurry, Hem and Haw as they search, find, lose and must rediscover their favorite food, cheese, in a large, twisting maze.
Sniff, Scurry, Hem and Haws stories explore the various ways we all respond to changes as no source of cheese is permanent.
*Having Cheese Makes You Happy
* The more important your cheese is to you, the more you want to hold on to it.
* If you do not change, you can become extinct.
* What would you do if you weren’t afraid?
* Smell the cheese often so you know when its getting old.
* Movement in a new direction helps you find new cheese.
* When you stop being afraid, you feel good!
* Imagining yourself enjoying your new cheese leads you to it.
* The quicker you let go of old cheese, the sooner you find new cheese.
* It is safer to search in the maze than remain in a cheeseless situation.
* The fear you let build up in your mind is worse than the situation that actually exists.
* Old beliefs do not lead you to new cheese.
* When you change what you believe, you change what you do.
* When you see that you can find and enjoy new cheese, you change course.
* Noticing small changes early helps you adapt to the bigger changes that are to come.
* The fastest way to change is to laugh at your own folly then you can let go and quickly move on.
* A change imposed is a change opposed.
We all strive towards outcomes at work, at home and in our communities because we believe they will make us (or those we love) happy.
It might be a good job, a loving relationship, money or possessions. It might be better health or spiritual peace of mind.
And it can feel wonderful when we eventually get them. Those things become cornerstones in our best-laid plans for the future.
We deny change has arrived or was coming. We get frustrated and start to blame others. We cling to what was, instead of what simply now is.
And the more important whatevers-at-risk feels, the more desperately we try to hold on.
We seethe with impotent stress and vexation. We think more about what could go wrong than go right. We let our fears grow out of control then control us.
But the fact is, like it or otherwise, that the world is constantly changing. And while not all change is good or necessary it always creates new opportunities, whether we recognise them immediately or not.
Yet life is constantly changing and sometimes it blocks (or even undoes) things we expect, feel we deserve or have worked so long and so hard to accomplish.
But because we fear starting again, looking foolish or that we might end up somewhere worse, we often don’t want to change when things begin changing around us.
That’s why its important to learn how to deal with change. That’s why it pays to learn how to adapt to new circumstances.
How to Enjoy Change
– When change happens, the first thing to realise is that how you react is your choice. The biggest barrier to change is inside you.
– The second thing to realise is that the best way to deal with change is to keep things simple, be flexible and move quickly. When change comes along simply change with it.
– Ask yourself:
Where am I likely to find the best opportunities, fighting this change or embracing it?
What could my life look like if these new circumstances led to something even better than the ones that Im leaving? and
What would I do if I wasn’t afraid I might fail?
Really reflect on your answers.
– Visualise them till the details are almost tangible in your head; until you change what you used to believe.
– Realise that most of your fears are irrational. Laugh at your previous folly. Let it go.
– Then take action make things happen rather than letting things happen to you. Take control even if you worry you’ve waited too long.
Recognise that sometimes things change and they are never the same again. And if this is one of those times, that’s life!
Life moves on and if you don’t want to risk going extinct, so must you.
How to Anticipate and Adapt to Change Quickly
Recall that no matter how secure something feels, you should always expect change to happen.
Because when you expect change (both gradual and sudden) to happen, you’ll better monitor and anticipate it early.
And when you monitor and anticipate change early, you’ll find it easier to adapt to it quickly.
And when you adapt to change quickly you may find you even enjoy it.
And when you enjoy change you’ll learn to love testing the edge of your comfort zone; you’ll be ready to embrace change again and again when it happens.
You’ll be less stressed, less unhappy and more adaptive than those who resist the inevitable.
You’ll shift your focus from losing what once was, to gaining what might someday be.
You’ll have more time, space and energy to embrace new outcomes that may prove even better than the old ones.
And you’ll enjoy a time-tested path to more success in your life and your work.